Winning You

You are not what others call you to be. You are definitely not what others think you are. Your future is not based on your past, rather you can change your future by focussing on your present and the choices you make. You are what God called you to be, you have a destiny which is yours to be fulfilled. God has a plan for you which is perfect, how you respond, is the question.

Don’t believe what the world has to tell you, if that the world could decide our fate imagine then Elvis Presley would have been a truck driver, Newton would have been a failure and so would Bill Gates and Edison, the list is endless. The world called them insane & a failure but today they have made a mark in our lives.

It is in weakness when we are strong. Our strength comes from God our Talents are his gift to us. Our role in this world is to sharpen our Talents and multiply them while following the direction that God is pointing us to.

Believe in yourself and all the good that is going to pass. If we are in the difficult situation or in an area where we are uncomfortable, know that you are building character, so you can handle what will come your way in the future.

Quite often we forget the good that has happened to us and get mauled by the bad that we are surrounded with. Focus and be thankful for the good in your life and you will manifest the good to come. We have come to this world to have a good impact on others, love endlessly we have a purpose that only we can fulfil and once that is done we go away.

You are precious to someone, your voice, your story has an impact on somebody, this could be a person who may never meet or know.  You are a hero to somebody, most importantly you are your own hero. Live like a winner, like king who is on his journey to his throne. Do all the good, endure the boulders and the pain on your path. Most importantly live life the good way.

There will be times when you will be treated badly, things will not always go your way, you fall hard. You may lose some friends & family along the way. That’s when you need to bring yourself together and believe in yourself more than ever. Believe in God that you are unique, and you are a masterpiece. Listen to your voice, it’s the inner voice telling you that you are worth it. You are valuable and it doesn’t matter what the world says, if you believe that that great things will happen and God will lead your way than you are a winner.



Giving up is not an option….

We are all unique in our own way. We have endured and continue to endure experiences which are unique to us. It is also possible that many of us may have experienced the same incident but our responses may be different. As humans we can create our own responses which are different to the same situation.

Troubles come in our life, and sometimes we don’t know why we are going through it. The wet pillow becomes a best friend at some points in our life. During such times, make a decision and take action, take control if possible. However sometimes we can’t do anything and can’t find a solution for such situations. At such times, its best to take a pause, make progress slowly but don’t give up. We understand life backwards and so will not know why something happened until later in life. One thing I am sure of is that everything happens for a reason, we have the power to endure. When we cannot, we have a greater force on our side which helps us tide this situation.

During such difficult times – it’s easy to give up, succumb to the situation and go to the extreme of ending one’s life. However according to me giving up is not an option. We should strive to live and continue to prosper. So what if you have lost a loved one, you are lonely, or you are completely shattered, these are unpleasant experiences, but they build you for what’s in store. You may be the only survivor in your family with no purpose to live. But who knows it is this experience that can propel you to bring healing to others. So what if you are bed ridden, you have a life, ask yourself what I can do positively in your life. What can you do, what can be if you take the first step? May be you can tell a story, may be you help others.

God has created our beautiful life – there may be some hiccups along the way. Life may not be as beautiful for us now but it doesn’t have to stay that way forever. Everything in life is momentary, how we cope with life is all that matters and once you make that shift is when you will be able to view life differently. It’s easy to be a victim and blame others for everything bad in our life, but if we can change this perspective in learning what life has in store for us than this will be a very different journey.

No matter what is the state of our life, there is a reason why we are here in this world, we have a purpose in life that only we can fulfill. It is possible that we don’t know that purpose and once we know the purpose in life, we will be propelled in a whole new direction. Many a times we give up and quit when we are almost about to strike gold. Giving up is never an option, make a decision to endure, to make the change and make a difference in your own and others’ lives. Who knows, your trouble, helplessness, worries may disappear the very next hour, day, month or year.

“I can choose either to be a victim of the world or an adventurer in search of treasure. It’s all a question of how I view my life.”
―Paulo Coelho